Bob Grant, author of
How Do I Get Him Back? Bring Your Love Back, is someone I know
personally. He's a colleague and a good friend.
Bob is not one for hype - everything on his websites is first class and
highly credible.
But let's get to the book.
I was very happy to read information in this book that I did not know in any
way before I read it.
Bob's viewpoint is very unique here - and one reason for that is because he
has zeroed in on how this subject affects WOMEN. Bob does have great insight into what makes
women and men tick. He's like the counselor we all wish we knew.
One of the first things Bob shares is WHY women do not need to worry about
figuring out why the breakup happened. And he explains why this does not help at that point.
Bob says to focus on getting back together, and that WHEN you are back
together, that will be the time to address the cause of the breakup.
Surprised to hear that? This is from the book:
"Dealing with exactly why the breakup occurred isn't necessary until the
relationship is established again, and the man feels safe enough to share
and to explore those feelings/reasons."
Bob also shares the truth about why men REALLY break up with someone and
what that process is.
Women think it's something they said or did - Bob says "no" to that idea. He
tells what makes things unravel.
One of the most intriguing tips I gained is this:
Exactly WHY does overgiving turn a man off - you will be surprised at the
answer - believe me, I was!
This will really help the next time you are tempted to give too much - because when you remember the
reason this turns men off, that will
definitely make you hold back on the over-giving!
Enough said for now - more on the book soon. It's another gem from Bob to us.
Bob Grant's book: How Can I Get Him Back? Bring Your Love Back!
www.bringyourloveback.com
With love,
Mimi Tanner